You have met a great girl, you have engaged in amazing and interesting conversations with her, she is good looking, and she also has a great sense of humor. She is everything you need in a girlfriend. But you are not ready yet to ask her out or just afraid.
This is a common thing. Many guys who meet a wonderful girl might be nervous to ask them out because she might not be interested in a relationship and everything might be ruined. On the other hand, maybe she is interested after all. So not to add to the stress, but it really is a big risk you have to ask.
A girl that you have discovered to be remarkable and fun to be around probably won’t let you down so harshly if you did in fact ask her out. If anything, you might remain great friends. If the date did happen and didn’t work out so well, you can reassess the relationship and decide that friendship is the best thing to do. If she totally rejected you and never wants to speak to you again, which is the worst case scenario, then at least you know how she truly is and you can move on.
Sometimes girls are a bit difficult to read. We might misinterpret their signals for something else or they might be confused as well whether to express romantic interest to remain just friends. It all depends on the situation but most of the time, if you and her are starting to obviously flirt with each other, it might be a good chance she is interested in having a relationship with you as well. You don’t have to be nervous about anything in this situation since you can be confident that her answer will not be an upsetting one. As mentioned before, at least you can try out a date and see how it goes before reanalyzing the relationship.
If you have met someone who laughs at your jokes and thinks you are cute, the signals are obviously out there so go ahead and take a chance to ask her out, you have got nothing to lose and everything to gain. This could be the start of a happy and incredible relationship.
