The biggest tactic to keep in mind when dating on the internet is to keep your emails, messages, and profile short and sweet. Long and lengthy messages will just bore your potential date and make them either ignore you or skip over to the next one. This can all be prevented by just working on your writing skills a bit.
When you write a long email initially to a guy you are attracted to, not only is this time consuming but you are also squeezing a couple of dates into one. By writing less, you allow more time and more curiosity to settle in with your date to explore more about you. More conversations can come out of short and sweet emails instead of lengthy book type messages.
When writing a message, try to describe yourself in a unique way. Words like beautiful, adventurous, easy going, and so on have been so over used that they have lost their meaning and will let you go right back into the crowd. Try using unique adjectives and descriptive words that will also show your type of character and things you like to do.
Try being concise but honest at the same time. If your goal is to find your true partner and a person you can be with for the rest of your life, lying isn’t a good start, especially when they are about basic things like your height and weight. This will also make a rough first few dates if you really like the guy as now you have to cover up the lies you’ve told him already.
Not only will being short and sweet and right to the point be less time consuming and require less effort, it will also attract prospective dates who are looking forward to learn more about the real you. Instead of telling everything about yourself in the initial email, you allow your potential date to stir up more curiosity and interest about you.
