Vintage does not necessarily mean perfection- especially when it comes to dating. While 50 is not exactly “old” per say, we all realize it is the stepping stone in life that puts us on our way for being “over the hill”. When it comes to dating, it is often times a lot tougher scene for those that have reached this milestone. The dating game is just that, a game…it is touch and go and no matter what age you are there are those that never seem to master the game. And, let’s face it, for those that have reached this milestone it is likely that they have been faced with a few more bad experiences that make them question if the entire scene is worth it.
Whether dating to find the love of your life, sex, or simply to enjoy some good conversation and a few outings with a like mind or someone you enjoy, you must be positive. Not only positive but realistic. Age does begin to master perfection and just because you are now 50 and single and find yourself on the dating scene and wrapped up in the game does not mean you have to settle or that the clock is ticking and time is running out. Relax, and don’t rush.
Get to know the person before you begin to date. This helps to ease the tension that is associated with a first date. Many times there is so much pressure and pretense involved in a first date that when the two are not formerly acquainted they forget to relax and to be themselves.
People have a tendency once they reach a certain age to change their values regarding dating. They no longer are in search of their soul mate to “start” life and raise a family. Often times the consideration of marriage is no longer in the picture as well. The majority of daters 50 and over are looking for someone to spend time with and enjoy. The variety of situations is greater at this age, some are widowed, divorced
and some have yet to find their Mr. or Miss Right. The advantage of age is that we are more likely to know what we do want and do not want in a potential mate.
And, just because you have entered the trauma of “over the hill” does not mean that life has ended. For singles over 50 it is virtually impossible not to find a match.
While vintage takes time, there is something special that comes along with it and dating over 50 can be just as exciting as when you were in your 20s. Sparks fly at any age and one is never too old to feel the flutters that only love brings
