When finding a husband online, the first thing you need to do is make sure your profile photo is professional. If you choose a photo that you cropped out your ex or where you are out partying, you will look too easy. Don’t have a photo with your pajamas or show too much skin either.
Write down which kind of men you are looking for and browse through some free online dating sites. Make it known that you are looking for a nice and caring man with life goals and a certain eye or hair color. Just be sure not to tell your coworkers you are looking for a man online and don’t give them your profile. Put aside some time for chatting. Try to keep it less than 2 hours as you don’t want to make it seem like you don’t have a life outside of the online dating sphere.
Men tend to be very visual and will often request more photos of you. Do not send him any photo until about 2 weeks besides your profile photo. Start sending messages and chatting in order to establish a friendship before sending a photo. Save the meeting face to face for 3 months after chatting and exchanging photos. The first meeting should also be a simple coffee date and definitely avoid the movies as talking time will be greatly limited. Find someone who you share interests with so you will have interesting topics to talk about over your first date and while chatting. However, sometimes opposites attract as well.
When looking for a husband, check out your date’s profile carefully. Make sure their photos and stories match up. Read the small print, such as making sure they aren’t looking for friends with benefits. Check the locations as well. If they are located in Africa or some place far away, try to avoid further contact with them. They might also be potential scammers asking for wire transfers. It’s best to find someone locally in your area. When you are out on the first meeting too, let the guy ask for the second meeting, not you.
Take six months to get to know him better. Try to see all sides of him, like his angry side, happy side, drunken side, and so on. Remember, this is your future husband so you need to make sure you can spend the rest of your life living with them. So try to stay away from drug addicts, alcoholics, and violent people. Do not move in with him until you get married. Don’t give into the “try out living together first” act. Make sure you let him know you are looking for a husband and not just a boyfriend. You need to show him you are serious about commitment and if he is the one for you, he will commit himself to marriage as well.
