Sometimes you just want to have sex with no relationship at all. The truth is that women occasionally feel the same.
Moreover, the fact is that the number of women looking for a one night stand is not less than that of men looking for the same thing. So, why often these two don’t meet? No, let’s formulate it: why don’t you meet these women? It’s because you’re looking in the wrong place!
Here we’ll speak about 5 most popular places to find a woman for a one night stand and will discuss the reasons for why they are the toughest places to meet a girl.
Sports bars
You think: Since it’s a bar, not a club, people tend to be more relaxed there and are keen on meeting new people. The girls are more open to a one night sex and you also feel comfortable there. So, that’s going to be an easy task.
In reality: Bar is the hardest place to pick up girls for sex. Here are the reasons: she is there with friends – imagine how she would feel if they see her go home with a guy she met there. Other people see her regularly there and they’ll also judge her by this. She probably just wants to hang out with friends and have a drink and not find someone for a one night stand.
So, that’s not going to be an easy task at all.
Can you increase your chances of a successful pick up? Yes, try to imagine that you already know her for a long time and approach her that way. You don’t have to say that – just imagine it.
So, you need to have the following behavior pattern: you approach her friendly, with a smile on your face, and start a conversation like you already know her. And you keep talking to her and her friends (that’s important) before you ask her to continue you night somewhere else.
Dance clubs
You think: Girls say they like to go to clubs to “dance with friends”. But you know that’s not true. They go there to meet guys and get drunk.
In reality: Some of girls, well, many of them, really go to clubs to dance with their friends. The fact is that they do not want to be bothered by some guys they don’t know. Well, pretend that you go to a bar to have a great time with your friends, would you care much for the opposite sex?
As for other girls, especially regulars of such places, there’s quite a strict rule known as “The club scene”. It means that if you’re not in the club scene and approach a girl who is in there, she wouldn’t go home with you because it would spoil her reputation. So, to overcome this you have to be either one of them or very impressive.
Finding women online
You think: Many girls don’t like bars and clubs and like to spend time online on Facebook and dating sites. And I am an interesting guy, so it’ll be easy.
In reality: Have you ever been at a party with two guys for every girl? It’s a similar thing online. If we speak about hot girls you want to find there, you’ll be not the only one who writes to them. In fact, you’ll be at the end of queue. Girls at the male dominated parties suddenly find out that they have choice and power to select.
And if we imagine, for example, a party with 6 guys for every girl? That’s the current real online dating ratio because more men turn to online dating then women.
And it means that:
a) They are overwhelmed with messages. Interested in how many messages they get? Open a fake female account, put a sexy photo of a girl and some bio and see the results.
b) They are drunk with power. Imagine if every time you log in into a dating site, you get about 30 messages from different guys.
So, to have a one night stand, turn off your computer. This won’t help.
Strip clubs
You think: Girls who work in strip clubs are sexy and easy to pick up. They take off clothes for money!
In reality: Strippers play the most complicated women “game”. Their job requires them to make you give them as much money as possible. This doesn’t mean they are evil or something – no, it’s just a profession. And they want to be pro.
Probably all the affection you get from a stripper leads to getting money from you. Flirting, teasing and so on leading you to ask for a more expensive private dance.
Moreover, strippers have a complicated set of dating and sex rules, which is not at all easy to catch. So, it means that you’ll have a hard time to find a one night stand here. Moving further.
Calling your Ex.
You think: You already have had sex with her and she said she liked it. Why not try it one more time since she’s still single?
The reality: Not the best decision, my dear readers. She will smell that you’re phoning her because you’re somewhat “desperate” for sex. And she’ll take advantage of that.
Now you can expect:
- She’ll blame YOU for your break-up
- Fighting, talking bullsh*t and blame games
- And all the other bla-bla games that women like to play
Let’s imagine you’ve overcome all this. And you’ve probably started building a new relationship again with her. And it’s the one that has serious flaws. And it’s not a one night stand that you were looking for.
So, we’ve covered these 5 tough ways to get a one night stand.
Now, where should you actually look for girls?
It’s simple: Anywhere you can meet a girl, during the day. Just because you meet them somewhere during a day, she’ll not except you to have sex the same night. That’s why she is less alert about it and she’s got less “shields” up against you. Mainly because this thing never happened to her before.
