In the online dating world, it’s easy to meet many new and interesting people. However, their profiles might not always tell the truth. It’s easy to write anything online including marital status, even if it is not true. It’s not a good idea to be involved with someone who is lying to themselves through infidelity or even become an accomplice to cheating. There are a few ways to find out whether or not the person you are interested in is married or not.
The easiest and most logical way to find out if they are married or not is to simply ask them. If their answers seem suspicious or give you a doubt, then you might want to be cautious as the most important thing is missing, which is trust.
Checking out public records by visiting a local office of records or even free marriage registration websites can show the status of individuals if they are married or not. While you are online, a Google or Yahoo search of their name can provide more information about if they were ever married or divorced. Nowadays, you can run your own background check right from a search engine. Check networking sites and other portals.e
Ask their family and friends if you have contact with them. It’s probably better to go to their family members first as their friends might mislead you.
See if they have any voice mails or text messages that might be from their spouse. Try checking for old photographs as well when they are not home. If they are busy during the weekends and do not have much time to meet you, this could also constitute a trace of cheating.
If the situation is a bit extreme and calls for it, you can always hire a private detective or contact the police. This of course is the most expensive way to find out if they are already married, but if they seem dangerous then you should not hesitate in contacting the police.
Of course the best way to find out is to just listen to your inner voice. If you feel that the person is going to hurt you or even hurt someone else, let go of the relationship. You will find someone better for you and well suited in the future.
It’s important to find the truth, whichever method you approach him or her, and make sure they are not married. Records and websites are the only way to find a confirmed truth that they are married, but of course listen to your inner voice and go with your gut.
