Debunking The Bad Guy
In the movies the tough guy, with no heart, would always get the girl, and that’s what were left to believe from the movies. But, didn’t it always seem like that the bad boys at school would always end up with the hottest girls? Or more so the sport obsessed popular kids that had no regard for others. For some reason the best looking girls would always seem to love the bad guys, no matter how he treated others. Perhaps it was the best looking guys just by chance ended up always becoming the bad guys? It seems that everywhere we tend to see a bad guy with a nice girl. It’s always the fools and the dense heads with the girls of our dreams! Always our perfect princess we could only dream about being with, with someone from America’s Most Wanted list. So why is it that nature hates us so? Is it just us? What has gone wrong with ourselves?
The truth is, men are confused. We love to just see, think and breath the stereotypes and work with that. If you really looked you would see that there’s a lot of people like you with pretty girls. Men in general are told that we need to be the tough guy, the hero in your family and friends. But then we get told we also need to be in touch with our sensitive sides, and this is true. And here you see the man across the street or in school treating his girlfriend like crap! He will never call, he’s rude and disrespects anyone and everyone and possibly even cheats on his girl, and yet he seems to build up a fan club of wanna bes around him. This is what we call life, it will seem unfair and in some cases it will be unfair, but let’s take a look here at what is going on with this example.
They are interested. It’s interest that is our enemy here. The bad guys are interesting to say the least, they do interesting things which interest people. They strayed from the drone like life people have and ended up developing their own code of conduct for living. They do what they want, they go where they want, they go and do what they want when they want to. They answer to themselves. If they weren’t so EVIL! They would in no doubt be very fascinating. To THEM it’s the ones that do what they are told and are nice that seem dull. It’s the ones that live life on the edge that are interesting. And I know, this isn’t fair, but you need to keep in mind that if the girl stays with a guy like that, then she wasn’t worth YOU. YOU would deserve better and should start looking in other places. These kind of people tend to be only in certain areas, not all, so there’s always someone out there for you, waiting.
The bad guys are not only confident but they are also self assured. They know what they are all about and they don’t give a hoot what others think. They are their own men and don’t need others to back them up or prop them up. The girls that go after the bad guys want to find the pot of gold at the end of their crazed rainbow. They will go great lengths to solve the guys mysteries. And once they went through all that, conquering their challenge, finally got the mystery solved, they don’t want to let go. The only problem with this is that’s a young thing. Once they begin to age they will see what they did in their life was wrong and could’ve had a real man that really cared about her this whole time.
And so the lesson to be learned here is that a bad boy is really a mixture of power, strength, character, confidence and mysterious. This is what attracts the ladies to them. Which means you can use these as a good guy and can probably get girls just like that. The good guys tend to lack confidence above all and as a past article mentioned a lot, confidence is key. So anyone with these key elements you will see with a girl. Not saying you NEED these, but if you got them you will get a girlfriend. For those that like the bad guys, they will learn in time that they went for the negative version of what they could have, and that will start to eat away at them and they will regret that life they lived. Like I said, no one says life is fair, but where as you don’t get that girl that the bad guy does, the girl will lose in the end as well. Its sad but true.
So please bare in mind, I am in no way saying we should all be Mr. Bad Guys here, not at all. What I AM saying is that you can take these key elements that makes the bad guys attractive and use them yourself! It will take practice, patience and a head strong attitude but if they can do it so can you. So if you can increase your confidence levels, as a past article states, you will be amazed the good it will do you. How you see yourself is what effects you the most, you need to stop this with confidence, remember how the bad guy doesn’t care what others think? Well you do care what others think, and that means anyone opinions can easily drive you to the ground. So don’t let that happen. Learn how to be confident. Having confidence will boost your attractiveness. So, no, you don’t need to go around being bad and ruining your life and your girls, but you can be more headstrong and more confident in what you do and not care if someone has something mean to say. Confidence is key! And on top of it all, you want to think what a partner would like and try to give yourself those qualities. That will also help you out in this dating world. Good luck guys!
In the movies the tough guy, with no heart, would always get the girl, and that’s what were left to believe from the movies. But, didn’t it always seem like that the bad boys at school would always end up with the hottest girls? Or more so the sport obsessed popular kids that had no regard for others. For some reason the best looking girls would always seem to love the bad guys, no matter how he treated others. Perhaps it was the best looking guys just by chance ended up always becoming the bad guys? It seems that everywhere we tend to see a bad guy with a nice girl. It’s always the fools and the dense heads with the girls of our dreams! Always our perfect princess we could only dream about being with, with someone from America’s Most Wanted list. So why is it that nature hates us so? Is it just us? What has gone wrong with ourselves?
The truth is, men are confused. We love to just see, think and breath the stereotypes and work with that. If you really looked you would see that there’s a lot of people like you with pretty girls. Men in general are told that we need to be the tough guy, the hero in your family and friends. But then we get told we also need to be in touch with our sensitive sides, and this is true. And here you see the man across the street or in school treating his girlfriend like crap! He will never call, he’s rude and disrespects anyone and everyone and possibly even cheats on his girl, and yet he seems to build up a fan club of wanna bes around him. This is what we call life, it will seem unfair and in some cases it will be unfair, but let’s take a look here at what is going on with this example.
They are interested. It’s interest that is our enemy here. The bad guys are interesting to say the least, they do interesting things which interest people. They strayed from the drone like life people have and ended up developing their own code of conduct for living. They do what they want, they go where they want, they go and do what they want when they want to. They answer to themselves. If they weren’t so EVIL! They would in no doubt be very fascinating. To THEM it’s the ones that do what they are told and are nice that seem dull. It’s the ones that live life on the edge that are interesting. And I know, this isn’t fair, but you need to keep in mind that if the girl stays with a guy like that, then she wasn’t worth YOU. YOU would deserve better and should start looking in other places. These kind of people tend to be only in certain areas, not all, so there’s always someone out there for you, waiting.
The bad guys are not only confident but they are also self assured. They know what they are all about and they don’t give a hoot what others think. They are their own men and don’t need others to back them up or prop them up. The girls that go after the bad guys want to find the pot of gold at the end of their crazed rainbow. They will go great lengths to solve the guys mysteries. And once they went through all that, conquering their challenge, finally got the mystery solved, they don’t want to let go. The only problem with this is that’s a young thing. Once they begin to age they will see what they did in their life was wrong and could’ve had a real man that really cared about her this whole time.
And so the lesson to be learned here is that a bad boy is really a mixture of power, strength, character, confidence and mysterious. This is what attracts the ladies to them. Which means you can use these as a good guy and can probably get girls just like that. The good guys tend to lack confidence above all and as a past article mentioned a lot, confidence is key. So anyone with these key elements you will see with a girl. Not saying you NEED these, but if you got them you will get a girlfriend. For those that like the bad guys, they will learn in time that they went for the negative version of what they could have, and that will start to eat away at them and they will regret that life they lived. Like I said, no one says life is fair, but where as you don’t get that girl that the bad guy does, the girl will lose in the end as well. Its sad but true.
So please bare in mind, I am in no way saying we should all be Mr. Bad Guys here, not at all. What I AM saying is that you can take these key elements that makes the bad guys attractive and use them yourself! It will take practice, patience and a head strong attitude but if they can do it so can you. So if you can increase your confidence levels, as a past article states, you will be amazed the good it will do you. How you see yourself is what effects you the most, you need to stop this with confidence, remember how the bad guy doesn’t care what others think? Well you do care what others think, and that means anyone opinions can easily drive you to the ground. So don’t let that happen. Learn how to be confident. Having confidence will boost your attractiveness. So, no, you don’t need to go around being bad and ruining your life and your girls, but you can be more headstrong and more confident in what you do and not care if someone has something mean to say. Confidence is key! And on top of it all, you want to think what a partner would like and try to give yourself those qualities. That will also help you out in this dating world. Good luck guys!
