It happens sometimes: you think your relationship with a man is going on nicely until suddenly, without any particular reason, he just stops calling you. Instead of asking yourself again and again whether you should call him, we’ve prepared several most common reasons why such thing can happen, why he stopped pursuing this relationship. These are the things you should better avoid in a relationship.
1) Men suppose that women want to settle down.
After several months of your relationship, a man starts to assume that you’re interested in something more than just casual dating. He thinks that his freedom is under threat, be it going out with friends or dating somebody else. Anyway, if he stops calling you in this spot, you just need to make it clear that you’re not going to restrict his freedom and the two of you are in an open relationship.
2) You are not Ms. Right for him.
If the frequency of his phone calls and SMS has been shrinking recently, and you’re dating for quite a long time to think about something more, like a marriage, it can be so that he’s just not seeing you as his wife. Consider what traits he’s looking for in his wife and whether you do meet these requirements. If these two don’t match, it’s a perfectly valid reason to stop calling you.
3) You have become inflexible in your relationship.
Remember your first month of a relationship. How did you act when he did something that you didn’t like, for example, not answering on a message or a phone call or showing up late for a date? Is your reaction still the same or you start expressing your disappointment and scold him? It can be that he was attracted to your easy-going behavior and now when you start showing your frustration, it’s a way to end a relationship for him by just not calling you. In this case, the best thing you can do is start to look for a new relationship. This guy is just not your Mr. Right.
4) You’re no more a challenge for him
There is a type of men for whom all their life is a challenge. The same approach they take to a relationship with a woman. When you’re a challenge for him – he’ll do his best for this relationship. However, when he realizes that you surrendered, he’s no more interested in it. You can identify this type of men because he often tries to talk you into something that’s beyond your comfort zone. Think twice before calling such a man yourself.
5) You’ve become too casual
When you keep dating for some time already, you can think of it as of a settle down, while for a man this thing is nothing else but ‘casual relationship’. If your relationship starts lacking romance, it’s no wonder he’s stopped calling you! Make some changes in your relationship, surprise your partner and show him that you care about your relationship. This is likely to solve the problem.
