As some of you may be able to relate to, going out to meet women ends up being a little uncomfortable when you talk to this woman for twenty minutes and next time you see her she seems to have totally forgot about you. Meanwhile there seems to be the nice cute girls that you date or talk to for only a short amount of time and despite the short meeting you are remembered from your name to everything about you that is positive. This is because these people either stand out from the crowd and are more out going or that all applies to you for the other dates. You started to adapt and you were able to be remembered even better. Or, of course, the others just simply have a sucky memory.
Here are three tips to help you stand out of the crowd and get the attention you deserve and being remembered as you would have liked.
Letting Your Passions Out:
If you are a boring person with an uneventful life who doesn’t enjoy things that are fun or crazy than you might as well not even bother how you will present yourself to women in the long run. It doesn’t matter if you have money, what clothes you wear, what kind of car you own or have owner, women will not want to spend time with you if you are boring like that. They want someone that is interesting.
One of the best ways to become an interesting person is by finding your passion in life and start living out your dreams. There are many great books out there that can help you with such a task, you just need to find out where. Usually most book stores.
Do The Unexpected:
Most of the time, the unexpected is what is remembered the easiest and best. When someones day is 90% the same as the last, you can’t really blame them for not remembering most of their day. It’s boring. But if there was something like a fire, volcano or tornado you can be sure no one would forget that anytime soon. Because it was not expected. Once again, a book can help you with this.
Think about it, you see a girl you like, so you go up to her and tell her you like her style and needed to come over to to find out more about her. This is different and that means she will remember it. It is not everyday a stranger will approach her on the street, that is the first different part, second would be the fact that you were bold, direct and to the point, not to mention nice, as opposed to whistling and acting like a jerk. By doing something that is different and that she will remember will increase your chances on a very good follow up.
Being Congruent:
You need to be congruent when it comes to having credibility with any woman, and more so the ones that are more choosy than others. Congruent means to have the behavior and personality that your identity naturally portrays. This is also called being yourself. Women aren’t stupid, if you act as a person you aren’t they will know. This will severely damage any chance at a follow up with them and will lead to some reputation loss. Be yourself always, because that is what they like. A real man who isn’t a fake and has no chances or plans on acting like a fake. Because fake is dumb!
