Today we will think over possible variants of why she did not call you back after your first date.
1. You’re not a hunter
If we go back to “caveman” days, let’s imagine what type of caveman you’d rather be? Are you the one who has dinosaur’s meat every night? The one who wears brand-new T-Rex shirts? Or, the one driving a pterodactyl?
Well, not that much as you might think has changed since those days. Women are still looking for a man who can provide them with what they need on some level. They’re looking for the “best caveman” who will supply them with food, clothes and other things and who will be their defender in any situation, even in case of a dinosaur attack.
2. Porno Pete
Guys, when you’re on a successful date and somehow managed to come together to your place, take your time to hide all your pornography (both somewhere among DVDs and on your laptop) before inviting her to see the whole place.
You might not even think of how often this ridiculous situation occurs when she somehow sees on your desktop something like “Lesbian-Nymphos.avi”.
And believe me, it’s not the worst file name that one can accidentally see. So, make an effort to hide all this things.
3. The stand-up comedian
If you’re not genuinely a funny guy, don’t try to transfer each phrase into a joke. There’s a big difference between an attempt at a joke and repeated lame attempts at a joke throughout the whole date.
Note: She’ll be laughing at you, not with you! You should make your date not trivial and jokes might help, but always look at her reaction since she might start to “laugh” just because you “joke”. Don’t make it a failure, bud.
4. The old guy
Generally, women like to date guys within a 2-5 year age range. There are many exceptions to this rule, but still.
So, if we imagine that you’re a 33 year old man who had a great first date with a 22 year old lady (10 years your junior). She thinks you’re a great guy with awesome sense of humor and a nice car. But now, guess what? As she starts thinking it over and you can’t fit her “friends” genre, she won’t go on a second date with you. Just because 8-10 years later you’ll be old enough to be her dad.
And moreover, when she phones her girlfriends the next day, they’ll pursue her that “you’re an old creepy guy who wants sex only”. And now, this leads to point five.
5. Her friends
It’s common that girls pay more attention to their friends’ advice than guys do. So, even if you think your date went perfectly, she can suddenly tell you the next day that you’re not the right guy for her. Why? One of the reasons is that her friends pursued her to think so.
If we take the situation, that her girlfriends are single, and she goes on a date, then they probably should be jealous of this and will make an effort to spoil the impression after she tells everything about it.
But we have one advice that can help. On your first date, ask her about her friends. Let her tell a story or two and, whatever you really think, make a compliment to her friend. This way when she calls her friend the next day, more likely than not, she’ll transfer that compliment directly to her and you’ll receive less negative feedback. Simply put. That’s it.
