There are two important questions to ask that prevent the end of a relationship.
When speaking about relationship problems we usually discuss each other’s complaints about what each of us lacks in this relationship. These 2 questions will help you see your relationship from another point of view. It might be a bit awkward at first to share this but it is worth doing.
So, how to save a relationship.
Question #1
“Is there anything you need from me that you have given up on getting?”
It’s a very deep question but it shows why both men and women break up. It happens when they do not get something they need.
These are generally not some simple needs like, “I need time to go out see my friends”, but things like, “I don’t have enough freedom to be myself” or “I don’t feel like you need me”.
A man is usually going to give up the whole thing after some time, after he reaches the point when he realizes he’ll no longer satisfy this need.
When you ask this question, be sure to put yourself in “mute mode” for some time while he/she’s answering the question. You can be totally unsure of what they’ll tell you and your replies will not do any good.
Listen carefully and pay attention to what is really worth discussing and what is just the emotional aspect of conversation. Anyway, if you don’t understand the answer at all, you’re probably not much compatible to each other.
Question #2
“Is there anything that I am doing or anyway that I am being that is losing your respect an affinity?”
It’s a tough question to be answered and to hear the answer too. But if your relationship is coming to an end, you have to do it.
It tends to be that men usually leave when they don’t get what they need. A woman usually leaves when she doesn’t respect or like her man anymore. But that’s not always the case and it’s useful to ask both these questions. Maybe it’s the case when the answers are going to help you overcome the possible break up.
The answers to these questions open up a possibility to give your relationship one more try. When your boyfriend sees a commitment from you, he may want to save the relationship too.
You’re free to ask these questions before you think the relationship is going to be over. And it’s recommended to do so. It’s important for you to know the answers to both these questions.
Ask them once or twice a year to see whether you have missed some noticeable changes in your relationship. If you listen to the answers carefully, you can not only save your relationship, but make it better than it used to be.
