More often than not people will spend a lot of your time dating thinking whether or not this other person like you. You would do whatever you can to check for any signs, but unfortunately they tend to just be false alarms.
Now, everyone knows that it is possible for your date to be smiling ear to ear, wants to get to know you more and shows that, and wouldn’t mind listening to anything you have to say, but secretly, deep inside, he or she may really be wishing it would just end so he or she can get the heck out of there. So when it comes to knowing what your date is really feeling, you need to look carefully for all subtle signs that you can to see your date’s real feelings. And here is how!
1: Your date may say your name a lot more than usual
Whatever you do, don’t get annoyed if your date likes to address you by name or even your full name, for example ‘How did you like the park, Bobby Doe’ or ‘Lizzy, wow I really like that name, Lizzy’
Now, take this as a sign that your date is liking you to the point that he or she just can’t help but to connect with your closest possession, which would be your name. You will also need to listen carefully for whether or not your date calls you by your name enthusiastically instead of in a monotone.
2: If your date squints at you
Pretend you are a diamond for a second here and you date has begun to squint at you, he or she is trying to see if you are, in fact, for real or not. So when your date squints their eyes just to partly close, as if staring into a bright, but not blinding, light. This is an unconscious reaction that a human naturally does, and this shows that he or she are currently searching for more information about you. It shows that you and or your date are now focusing even harder on you, to sort of make sure you aren’t some illusion or fake. And everyone knows that one way to check your date out is when you look more closely at them.
3: Does your date ask you how and why?
Any date that happens to be polite would ask you things that are of a factual nature, usually about your family life, like where did you grow up or if you have any sisters or brothers. This helps keep the date from being weirdly quiet, but it isn’t a sure sign that there is no chemistry between you two. BUT! The second your date starts to ask questions in a more deepened manner you can be sure that your date is getting pretty dang interested in you. If they ask questions that start with how or why, it is the sure sign, you see, people don’t normally ask questions like that when it comes to dates, they usually stick with other things, so if they start it with a why or how, it shows they are going past the ‘dating rules’ to show his or her interest.
4: Does your date get quiet when you are together?
When your date is silent, don’t go assuming that he or she is not longer interested or bored, avoid that thinking. The reason being is because it can very well mean the total opposite of that. The fact is, your date may be feeling a pull towards you that he or she can’t ignore or deny that they are lost in thought about you. But this doesn’t mean that this is what it always mean, you can test it to find out whether or not your date is deep in thought or just really really bored, all you got to do is ask your date a random question, like ‘are you okay?’ or ‘enjoying yourself?’.
Now, if your date responds like so: ‘What are you talking about?/What do you mean?’ or starts getting somewhat defensive it is probably a sure sign that they are bored or tired and want to go home. But to contrast that, if your date smiles back at you and apologizes kindly for getting a little distracted, chances are your date was thinking about you two, probably in the future.
5: Do you hear ‘You are’ often?
If your date likes to exclaim and possibly stress ‘You are/ You’re’ followed by something positive, like ‘funny/awesome/cool’ and so on, consider yourself, my friend, lucky. When your date gives you personalized statements of approval and even admiration of a date or yourself, this means that means that your date really likes YOU and not pretending, it’s sort of a subconscious choice of words that you wouldn’t realize you were doing unless you were really paying attention. The brain is cool, isn’t it? And the choice of words you probably don’t want to hear (Although it DOESN’T mean your date is ruined) is ‘That is/ That’s funny/awesome/cool’ and so on.
6: Lastly, does your date ever give you something?
This doesn’t mean getting you nice toys or jewelry, this means if your date gives you something that you can actually hold and use it to remember the day some other time, to always keep the time you spent together in mind. When someone does this, it more often then not is a sign that he or she is really feeling the chemistry between you two. This token of loveyness can easily be a toy or stuffed animal that you won at the arcade or park that you two were at together or perhaps the ticket stubs that you keep after watching a movie together.
To get one of these suckers you got yourself a sure sign that your date not only wants you to remember him or her, or the night you two went out, and not only will you know THEY will be remembering it at well, but you can be sure that your date really likes you and will remember that evening you two spent together for a long time. At a time like this you probably want to make and set up that second date.
There you all have ways to find out if your date really likes you or is just hiding the fact that they want to get home ASAP!
