Everyone has noticed that most of the time the bad boys tend to get the girls. This is defiantly true in terms of Hollywood, and maybe even so through life a few times. How it goes is this: You are a nice man, you have great qualities and maybe even look good, but you notice that the girl of your dreams not only doesn’t notice you, but goes for the obviously bad boys. Classic black leather jacket, mean to everyone, makes fun of everyone and possibly even cheats on their girl. So why does this even happen?
Females seem to be attracted to the jerks and punks, mainly in their younger years anyway, and the reason is because they propose a challenge for them, and that is something women like. We like a good figure, they like a challenge and something to work towards. It’s not so much that they like them being bad, obviously no one likes being treated badly, but they also find it ‘cool’ and feel like by being with the jerk they are part of a group, and sometimes they get the treatment from the soft side of the jerk. The thing they got that you don’t is the hook. They got the hook, line and sinker all down. If you were able to hook a girl in and have her get to know you, chances are she would like you much more than one of the bad boys or jerks, but you don’t and that is why they get them and you don’t. Females don’t go looking for males based on their nice meters, they pick the males that make them have a powerful sense of attraction to, and women attraction isn’t like males, who see a good figure and get all goo goo over her, theirs are built on other principles. That is one reason why younger women sometimes for for the older men, because they have to offer security. And unfortunately, to the younger crowd of lovers out there, women aren’t too into nice before that feeling. When they get older their minds will mature, but until then, if you want to get a girl you need to be confident, you need to look good and clean shaven, and you need to make sure you got a good hook to make them attracted to you. Usually the woman knowing you is a great way to start, work with what you know, if that doesn’t work move on to social areas that can result in meeting a new female.
Once you smell nice, got nice clean clothes on, washed and shaved and got your hair under control with your head full of confidence you should be ready to try whatever you are doing to try to get yourself a female. Females fall for confidence guys too you know. It’s hard for someone to accept in the early years of dating, but the dating game changes as you get older, you need to understand the female in order to get one, and no that doesn’t mean pretend you are a punk, be yourself of course but be head smart in your decisions. So until you figure this all out and try it, you won’t have much luck. Good luck guys, 9 more mistakes that males make, on the way. And then it’s the females turn. So hang in there everyone and I’ll get to work on these for all your enjoyments! Have a good one.
