Ever wonder if there were just signs in tip form that can enlighten you whether or not the person you are dating Mr. or Miss right? Well, here I composed a list of tips to help you with that, and you should probably distant yourself away from people that have these signs, or the more serious ones anyway. Remember, everyone can change, so give them a chance to, but let them know you are doing so, if they don’t then drop them. Have no regrets, there is ALWAYS more people out there, always.
The first sign, or tip, is is he or she doesn’t listen. When you talk or tell sad stories does he or she seem to not care? Do they keep disregarding your feelings on the issue? No one should be like that, not even as a friend. If your date is like this, there is a large chance he or she is not your perfect person. Mr. or Miss right would always take time out to hear you and always take your feelings into consideration, even a friend would. But remember, give them a chance on this one, they might just be used to living like that.
Second sign would be if he or she is always yelling at you for one thing and or another. This person would be far from your soul mate. Don’t take this from them and let them know you deserve better than that, stand up and leave, and don’t get yourself into a relationship like this at all, signs are early, if you were to marry that was your own fault.
The third sign is if she or he isn’t supportive of your work, or even you. Whether it’s work at home or anywhere else, it doesn’t matter, if he or she doesn’t support you than you should start looking for someone else, but this is another one you should give them a chance with, but make sure they know you are giving them this chance. Your perfect person would support you, and you let them know that.
Fourth sign would be if he or she is demeaning towards you. If they are then they are not worth your time or love. You know for a fact that you deserve to be treated with respect, no matter the situation and in all aspects of life. No one deserves to go through that, more so in a relationship. I wouldn’t give them a second chance at this one, but it’s up to you. No soul mate would do this.
The fifth sign is if he or she is taking control of your life to the point THEY are making your plans for your future together without any input from yourself. This is isn’t right and you know that. Whoever you are with shouldn’t do this, and if they do then you best be out of this relationship. All relationships should be about choices and compromises. If he or she keeps taking that away from you then he or she needs to be out of your life. You can do enough damage on your own, you don’t need help!
Sign six, the last one at the moment. If your person, male or female, either of them can do nasty things, it is not gender based, seems to be controlling in any manner at all, then they need to hit the road and never come back. If they are controlling they are not the right ones. No one needs to be controlled, no one needs to be told what to do and just how to do it. Before I go on though, I say this because you are adults now, as kids you SHOULD be told what to do, that’s how you learn, but as adults I would ‘assume’ that you know what is right and wrong by this point. And don’t get this confused with just trying to help. There’s a fine line between controlling and giving advice, make sure you know how to distinguish the two. If the person won’t let you be with family or friends that happens to be controlling, if he or she doesn’t want you to go to the biggest club or rave party in the town, chances are it is because they love you and knows those people are not good for you and you should not surround yourself around such people that can only ruin your life, not make it better.
There’s six signs of if your person is the right person or not, use this knowledge, it isn’t faked in anyway, it’s written by plenty of peoples experience. Learn by their mistakes, not your own! Good luck everyone.
