Emotional affairs happen. Whether you like it or not, they happen all the time, and you just need to make sure that you are ever vigilant with your relationship so that you do not fall into one of these emotional affairs and end up breaking someones heart that shouldn’t be broken. The problem is, is that no matter who you are committed to, your eyes will wander and your ears will hear things. Just like you developed feelings in the first place, its possible to do so in a work place all over again if you allow it to happen. Perhaps some hot man in your work place seems to say all the right things all the time, and before you know it you end up more attracted to this person instead of who you were with. This is bad. Some cases of an emotional affair, when I asked some women, was that they never actually ever touched the person, but they just felt so strongly drawn to them that they would actually fight to not still dream about them. They all say its the hardest relationships to get over, and you were never an item to begin with! Emotional affairs are dangerous to you and your partner. Just tell yourself NO, you can’t let it happen, unless you are single and you plan on asking this person out. If you ever feel like you are attracted to someone WHILE in a relationship, that’s a bad sign, stay vigilant always. If you don’t there is a big chance that it can turn into more than just an emotional affair. Ever wonder how married couples could ever cheat on their spouses? Well this is how, and everyone knows that, that is not only bad, but you are looked down upon and those relationships never last. You will be nothing but a temporary play thing.
Emotional affairs are what starts the full blown ‘tangoing’ affairs that everyone hates and hates the people that would do it. Emotional affairs are the grey areas of all relationships, it tends to occur with a person already in a committed relationship lets themselves, usually the female, form a deep attachment to a person he or she is attracted to, after allowing themselves to be attracted to the person in the first place. And for the record, I don’t want to read in comments that it’s impossible to not be attracted to someone, because I am living proof that is wrong, I found girls cute and had a favored figure I liked, until I met my girl, at that point it just seemed like ever girl I seen was nothing more than just another walker by. It is possible to ignore the hot or cuteness in a person to the point you don’t even notice it without trying. You just need to love this person truly.
Unlike the purely ‘tangoing’ affairs, most of today’s affairs start with looks and then begins to be more. Like a friendship into a ‘no strings attached’ ‘tango’ way back in the past. They start off thinking its nothing, one time won’t hurt, and then it spreads, and spreads fast as you see your life begin to crumble around you. You should never have that moment where you think ‘one time won’t hurt’ because it will, it will hurt them just as much as it would hurt you. And if you really love who you are with, which I would hope you would, you would never think of doing anything like that in the first place. Stay committed to your partner. Your heart and mind needs to be in it, or it will fail.
If you are faithful, and respect your partner and show your love all the time, then you should not need to worry about an affair taking place. If you make sure our eyes don’t wander then you should be fine. All you need is real love, not a temporary date that says they love you, as well as the 20 people before you. Be with someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, and never forget why you fell in love with them in the first place. EVEN IF this emotional affair is ONLY looking, that is just as bad. Just don’t do it, it’s that easy, unless you need a slap in the hand and be stood in a corner, you should know better, you are an adult, you know right from wrong. And if you are someone that does so just for the thrill and for feeling bad, you don’t deserve anyone, and chances are you may not find someone you will want to grow old with, no matter what your youth will pass and you will get wiser and you will wish you stuck with one of them, not mess with all of them. So good luck everyone and stay faithful.
