Such situation can happen: you had a few dates, showed interest in each other, you thought of moving further in your relationship and…suddenly, he or she vanishes. The phone is off (or nobody answers), no e-mail replies or other connections.
What happened? Let’s take a look at several possible situations:
Something bad might have happened. He got in a car accident or was taken to hospital. Need to try once again to send an e-mail to find it out.
She found another guy and now thinks it would be best to ignore me. No, really, it’s so childish. One should always make it clear that there will be no further relationship between the two of you.
Maybe she is depressed and feels that it’s no good talking to anyone in the whole world. You should try to look up her status on Facebook.
Why is he ignoring me? Maybe, he is pressed with a lot of work? I’ll send one more e-mail to find out whether he’s really too busy at the moment.
Am I of no interest to her? But what’s the point in going on a second date then? I’ll wait for some time till she gets in touch.
These are just several of the possible variants. You can’t always guess what actually happened, however you should try to remember if anything from your previous dates showed any signs of warning. Your partner might have given you the cue that you weren’t able to spot because you were too obsessed with him/her.
Anyway, don’t be too quick with your final decision, but bear in mind that it isn’t a good sign at all, if your partner disappears after several dates.
And, for those who have such a tendency, you should know that it isn’t a good idea to ignore your partner anyway. It’s much better to tell him/her that you’re not going to continue your relationship or that you’ll be busy for some time. Remember that they might be struggling because you don’t answer.
