Body language is the language which requires no words. It has been used for hundreds of years, mainly by women, who want to get a guy that they are attracted to. Being able to be fluent in such a language as body language will make sure that you will stay skilled in attracting the right guy that you want and being able to give the wrong guy the right signals to keep him distant so that you can work on your prey.
First thing comes first. When it comes to beginning the whole flirting game thing, you need to eye your prize. The more eye contact you and your potential guy makes the better. You should keep it normal, start with the side glances then work your way to the direct eye contact. Chances are if you make eye contact, he would have had to turn to you, when he does lower your gaze and smile sweetly to yourself. By doing this you send the message ‘Hey, I was looking at you and now that I know you saw me looking at you, I’m embarrassed’. That happens to be the best way, in terms of eyes, that you can shove the message to him that you are interested in him. Now that you shoved the sign of interest into his eyeballs, you need to be able to hold his gaze longer and give him a flash smile. If you happen to be getting a stare from someone you aren’t interested in, simply look away and don’t look back. If for some reason they approach you, you need to put it in there that you are not interested by rubbing the back of your neck as you look around, or just look at the ceiling or floors.
First impressions are really the best thing you can go with when it comes to getting someone to like you. They judge you the first split second that they see you but that doesn’t mean it is the first impression. The first impression is when you actually associate with the person. One of the best ways ladies can make a good first impression is by dressing up good. Think about it, someone enters a room. Then what? Everyone in it will look at that person, when that happens you want to make sure that you look good because they will judge you and have a first impression of you by how you look at that time. If you look your best you will feel your best. Anytime you leave out of your house, look your best, you never know who you may attract.
Just like your eyes, your hands can send across powerful messages, and I don’t mean like Morse code. There are small things that will help get the message across. If you clench your fists then you show that you are closed with the person. By keeping your hands opened shows that you are open. You can also stroke things to show you are really into him, such as like the rim of your glass or a lock of hair. If you ‘accidentally’ touch him or go to touch him for some reason, like getting a fuzz off his jacket or something, that will also add to the liking feeling. Don’t be fidgety though, you want to show you are comfortable around him.
