Almost all online dating sites provide you with the opportunity to write a short header message, which will be seen by other users under your profile name. Some of us do not know how to fill it and leave something like “Hey there!” or “I’m waiting for you!” I disagree with it. You should not leave it like that.
What you need to do is to arouse interest in other people, when they are surfing through lots of profiles, by adding a smart, amusing and clever message. This will make them stop at your profile and thoroughly study it.
Actually, there are 3 main criteria, which help your web profile on a dating site look magnetic – these are 1) your photo 2) your nickname and 3) your header message
We would leave the first two points and concentrate on the last one. So, how can you make your header profitable on the love market? Here are 2 main things you should bear in mind:
I. Do not use clichés and dull headers
This might seem simple, but there are thousands of people on online dating sites who take part in the competition to find his or her Ms/Mr Right. Estimating you have an average profile which seems to be quite the same like lots of others, what chances do you have?
We tend to find someone unique, who thinks in another direction, a creative personality. In order to be one, you should throw away standard phrases like “Hi” or “I’m here to meet new people” and replace them with phrases which will be paid attention. “I know what you did tomorrow” or “I’m here by accident. Need money for kung-fu lessons” will at least be noticeable among hundreds of “Hello” messages left by other people. Of course, you can find a much better phrase, which will suit you perfectly, these examples are here just to show you in what direction you should be thinking.
II. Do an analysis of other people’s profile headers.
Here, you should take notice of headers which make you pay attention to them. It’s a really good way to understand how you can make a wonderful header. Why do you want to click on this or that profile? Is that because of a header that holds your curiosity?
