This article will be about body language again. In the past we have mentioned the importance of it and of course what to possibly think when your date does some things. But this one is about what YOU can do instead of just what you’re looking for, here they are:
-Attracting the man or woman
This is the one piece of body language you really don’t need any words or real work. It’s something women have been doing for hundreds of years to attract the man they wanted. Becoming great in body language will make sure that you will be skilled in attracting the right man or woman and sending them the ‘get lost’ signal to the wrong man or woman.
-Eyeing the prize
The more eye contact you make with your potential ‘target’ the better. One would normally start with the sidelong glances, then would begin with the direct eye contact. If you’re a girl, once his eyes meet yours the usual ‘protocol’ is to lower your eyes and smile to yourself. This will tell him that you were not only watching him (stalker!) but you were ‘embarrassed’ that he caught you staring at him, which is a sure sign of interest. Next flash of eye contact try to hold his gaze for a bit more and smile.
If there is a man that’s giving you the eye contact and you aren’t all that interested, just look away from him and don’t look back at him ever again. And once you engage in a conversation you need to make sure you keep eye contact. As for you men, well just look around and see if a girl does any of this.
-First Impressions Count
So, you leave your home all ready to go to some party when you spot your handsome neighbor and he doesn’t even give you a second glance. Why?! Because you aren’t dressed your best, of course! When you enter a room most people look to see who just entered. This is when you have to make your first impression no matter what. Looking your best will make you feel your best as well. So before you leave your front door, you look your best. You never know, you might just attract the attention of that handsome neighbor, and the same applies for you guys too, only it’s a hot neighbor!
Standing out
Your posture is one of the more most important telling signals that you can possibly transmit. An open posture is what makes a person look open, so easy to approach. If you turn towards the person you are having a conversation with, keeping your feet still on the floor and leaning towards the person just a little bit are actions that show interest! And tilting your head a little bit shows that you want to want to know more. Crossing and uncrossing your legs gives the same effect. Anything else isn’t as expressive or even accomplishes the opposite.
And here is a few extra tips for you guys and gals out there to keep things as good as you can.
Hopefully by now you have a plan for when it comes to finally getting out there again, or when its time to give up.
-When the two of you start to actually ‘mirror’ each other subconsciously you know things are going real well between you two. Like when people can finish each others sentences, it shows you guys are getting close.
-No man likes to be teased, nor any female. Don’t tease anyone by offering them something then not follow through with it. This can lead to a very ugly date.
-Chain smoking sucks. It’s not only intoxicating, but your date may not enjoy the smell and might want to enjoy his/her lungs during the date.
-If you try something and either one (boy or girl) doesn’t want to ‘do’ anything, leave it at that, save it for another time, don’t ruin a date because you can’t take a no.
If none of these seem to work you can always just buy a shirt that says, “Looking for love” but I would just keep to the tips.
