Being the age of thirty or in the age of thirty, such as thirty one or thirty nine, it seems to be the changing point in the lives of many that hit this age marker, you are close to half your life over (depending on which thirty something you are) and to many, if not all, it’s the time where we all have matured and have woken up some random morning to finally understand just who we really are and what we are really all about. At this point in age we have some idea of direction and meaning, we have experienced a lot of ups and downs in life and know right from wrong (or so I’d hope) and its now a time for choices and crossroads. Back then it may have been the age of forty that this would begin but nowadays its the age of 30 that you should start to sit up and take notes. This is the time of reflection and self analysis, understanding that we are entering the more mature age group, checking just how far our ambitions have gone, like it or not, you can not stop age, so accept your place.
Now, although yes, you never stop aging, never stop getting older, but I’m not saying that at the age of 30 you suddenly become an old man or you can start saying you’re old, and I’m not saying you need to dramatically start changing your life at this point to, but many, if not all, can agree when I say that at this point in life you begin to think, and think a lot.
So, when it comes to dating it seems to weigh heavily on this age group mainly because of the careers you all have. You have you careers sorted out, you know what you are doing with your life (which women like), you have a steady income at this point and thus it has dawned on you all that perhaps it’s about time we search for and get a partner that we can share this life with, that we can share these goods with, that you can spend your life with, because it can possibly be now or never, never know. For the women in this age group, it’s usually the time in their life where they are strongly considering and thinking of having kids. Kids will be on their tippy top list of priorities and thus that is why they are looking for someone who has a steady income, steady career that knows what they are doing with their life. They are looking for that suitable parent or father figure that they can start this amazing new life with that they know can support a family. It’s not the point where they are worried that it will be too late to have kids, but it is edging closer so it begins to rest on their minds a lot more. This isn’t the age where wrinkles sprout out and you start to need a walker but you know, its getting there eventually and you should enjoy a family and a life with a partner, I’m sure you deserved it. So even at that age, dating tips are important. Just some you will know due to common sense.
By this time in age, where your career is rocking and all that jazz, it means you have more time and money to date properly. To make the needed decisive choices about who, where and what you to date and to learn, of course, from past mistakes, which is something that comes with age. Of course, at this age a lot of people will have a good relationship but this is for the singles that haven’t fallen truly in love yet. By this time we should have plenty of strong friendships and plenty of experiences in the ways of the heart but all is not perfect here. Dating at this age, as you get older as well, you become increasingly tired and frustrated. You have learned to accept less in a person just so you have a wider range of people you can be with, and or the opposite. The gold diggers and jerks wearing you down over the ages.
One thing also that you should know is just where to date. When you are in your thirties the last place you should bring a date to is some club or some bar. Those are for the younger, more foolish, generations that still have a lot to learn about self control. You need your sleep, she needs hers so you can’t stay up to late. It’s not the easiest thing, or so you may think, it’s actually really simple. A small restaurant would do just fine. Candle light, soft music, somewhere nice and comfortable that isn’t full of those young people that may or may not cause problems just because they can. Older people seem to like coffee, so maybe try a cafe too.
And yes, I understand that at that age it may be harder to find someone, whether most are married and they don’t seem to be as abundant as the younger girls, you must not get desperate for the sake of getting someone that’s in it only for the ride.
So, if you are thirty something and single, you may want to start looking for a partner, to start a family, live a nice life not alone anymore, have kids and watch them grow up, perhaps grandchildren down to road. This article is to inform the generation that has learned its life lessons, perhaps even the hard way, and to help them along into getting even them, dates and marriage perhaps. So carry on dating with a new outlook on things and remember, although love has no age boundaries, keep it reasonable! Good luck!
