This article will continue the topic we started yesterday about signs that can show that your partner is going to break up with you sooner or later. We’ve compiled a list of signs that are strong indicators that something in your relationship doesn’t go right.
1. Noticeable change in your partner’s behavior towards you
You can probably feel this when your partner’s behavior has changed. For example, does your partner make eye contact when speaking to you? Does he seem to be distant? How does she act when you meet?
2. Me, Me, Me
When speaking about the two of you, does he use the word “I” instead of “We” often enough? This is one of the mental indicators that he’s not too interested in you and your relationship. People in this case tend to focus on themselves most of the time and start acting too egoistic. If you start feeling that his problems are much more valuable for him than anything else, it’s a warn sign. Probably he’s already made up his mind about the future of your relationship.
3. “I don’t like the way you’re dressed”
Have you heard of any guy in a relationship who will normally say that you should lose a few pounds or that you have no taste in what to wear? Yes, maybe there is one or two but after saying this you can easily indicate that he doesn’t value your relationship. Or, is it the case when he doesn’t show any interest in how you look like? These two opposite sides are the signs that he can be no longer interested in you.
4.I’m a busy guy
In the modern world people are usually busier than they used to be a few years ago. But at the same time this can’t be an excuse if he’s not showing up for long time because “he’s too busy”. And other means of communication like cells, e-mails etc aren’t an excuse. You need to know though, whether he’s really so busy with his job or if he’s hanging out with his friends or spending time on a hobby. All this will make him busy but you’ll easily find out how much interest does he have about you if you find out what he’s really doing.
5. James Bond
Have you ever asked your boyfriend if he works for the CIA? Does he ignore phone calls from other people when you spend time together? Or does he hide his e-mails or close the browser on laptop when you come by? Or has a contact list on his cell full of female names and doesn’t want to explain you who they are? Or doesn’t want to leave open his account on Facebook? Don’t be too suspicious though, or you’ll look like Sherlock Holmes which is also not good.
6. Quarelling
Quarrels are common to almost all relationships. However if you start noticing that the number of fights between the two of you has increased and they’re happening because of trivial matters, this can be a sign that your partner wants to end your relationship. Nobody likes to quarrel, unless there is a need to do so.
7. Sex
This point is arguable and probably depends much on a person but still. When you get into a serious relationship with a person you’ve got feelings to, the sex is usually fantastic. When time passes, the emotional level lowers and it can sometimes happen that one of you is not up to it then. But when you feel that your partner doesn’t have any intention to have sex with you or is indifferent in bed, that’s a huge sign that your relationship comes to an end.
8. Silence
Did it happen earlier, when you started dating, that you can speak hours on anything and could always find a theme to speak on. Does it now look like your partner doesn’t want to share anything with you and only answers on direct questions and just in a few words? Did he use to tell you funny jokes which he now never does? You can answer these questions by simply asking your partner some questions that you know for sure present great interest to him and he used to speak a lot on them.
9. Back to the future
Do you speak about your future plans? Say, like, about start living together or about possible future marriage or just about future holidays. Try to ask your partner about future event you’d like to go to, or plan a day off together and watch the reaction. Does he/she easily agree to your plans or are they constantly postponing the decision until it gets too late?
10. “I need to be alone for some time”
Needless to say more. It’s such a HUGE sign that everything is either already over or will be over soon. Some people get too blinded by affection or love to the person that they can’t understand what this statement really means, when it’s almost shouting to you: “It’s over!” Maybe, the situation is yet not that poor and you can bring the good old times back, but bear in mind that this phrase means that your partner doesn’t like this relationship and already has plans to end it.
