When going out on a first date, many guys feel that dating tips are useless because all girls are different. That is true to a point, but there are some things that are just universal which all women look for in a guy. That being said, it is essential to brush up on some first date tips to know what and what not to do.
The first thing is grooming, meaning that you should present yourself in a clean and groomed manner. Some girls like a little bit of facial hair or that “bad boy” look, but you can still be groomed and neat when you are going unshaven. Besides facial hair, make sure you smell presentable and not like an old sock as well as having clean clothes without any grease stains on them.
Besides making yourself look presentable, the date itself will be like a sales meeting. You have to be able to sell yourself and your attributes. She doesn’t know anything about you, so you could be either a zero or a hero. After talking a bit and getting to know each other, if have gained some attraction from her, try asking her out on a date. Don’t do it a nervous or hesitating way, instead, do it in a way that you will assume she will say yes. This shows confidence and that you are really interested in her. For example, try asking her something like “I really enjoyed talking to you this evening. Let’s go out this weekend, what is better for you, Friday or Saturday?”
After popping the question, she will be looking for any signs of weakness. Don’t be looking away or feel embarrassed. If she is simply not interested in you, she will tell you and you just misread her signals. However, if she is interested, she will most likely accept your proposal.
It’s also a good idea to get her phone number the same way. By saying “Great, so I will give you a call. What number is better for you, your house or cell?” These tactics will sure help you out to get a first date as it will demonstrate confidence and this is an attribute girls like to see.
