Going out on a first date can get anyone’s nerves running and can cause anxiety. If you prepare for your first date by brushing up on some dating tips, rules, and even some first date location ideas, then you will seem confident and have a successful and happy first date.
First Date Ideas
It isn’t about spending a lot of money that makes a first date special. A woman who is looking for a long term committed relationship wants a guy who is self assured, fun to be around, and most of all, confident. It’s all about choosing the right location that will set a comfortable and fun environment and mood.
Coffee and drinks is a good place to start a first date. It’s standard but very effective. You are able to converse in a very casual way and it removes the pressure from sitting across from each other at a 5 star fancy restaurant. It gives you a chance to be yourself and get to know the other person. Playing some fun games too, like miniature golf or going to an arcade can also bring a lot of fun memories and a relaxing first date. If she is a bit more into extreme sports, then take her ice skating or even skiing, rollerblading, or a hike up a mountain. All of these activities don’t require spending hundreds of dollars on a fancy candlelit dinner that will only make things more nerve-wracking and uncomfortable.
First Date Rules
The next step is when you are on the first date to remove all expectations and concerns. Meaning, do not expect to be perfect and don’t expect the same from her. It is very important though to make a good first impression but if you are worried about every single action you make, you will destroy that first impression you are trying to build. Just go out, relax, and have fun. If it doesn’t work out, then just move on and you will eventually find someone you can really bond with.
Another important rule is to limit your time. Don’t come into a date imagining you will be spending the rest of your life with this girl and think about your 10 year anniversary together. The purpose of the first date is to make a great impression and sweep her off of her feet. You should prove to her that you are someone who will provide countless hours of fun and show her a great time. However, keep the date short and sweet. If you spend too much time on a date, she might become bored. Keeping the date short will give her the chance to “miss” you and want to see you again.
Finally, you don’t want to come off too strong and over flatter her but at the same time treating her too nice will lead into the friend zone. Therefore, it is important that if attraction exists, tease her a bit and throw in an occasional flirt. Show her that there is some affection in the teasing like a little bit of making fun of her and so on. Following these tips will surely lead you into a successful first date and bring many fun memories to last a lifetime.
