One of the big things men do that is a no no happens to actually be ‘revealing’ how much you like her a little early into the relationship. They would find it a little too weird if on the second date you spill your feelings and start talking of marriage and kids. You need to remember that women are always high in demand, even when there is a lot of them, and just pouring out your feelings early on just makes you look like ‘another’ that is pushing things and doesn’t want to take things at a proper pace. Women are approached all the time and the desperate ruin any chances of her enjoying your feeling pouring. All she sees is another desperate male. It’s these guys that ruined it on us and if they never existed I’m sure this wouldn’t be listed as a mistake, but those people do exist, and thus the mistake exists. More often then not attractive women are approached daily by guys that are interested in her. The women probably dates a lot of these men and they pretty much see every form of being desperate. When you get a date you need to keep this in mind when you want her to stick with you. Women also like guys that are hard to get. So being desperate happens to be the total opposite of that.
The women happen to have the experience and know what to expect from a desperate guy. They been there and done that so often that at the first sign of being desperate they will probably jet. The more attractive the more likely this is true. And don’t even try to tell her in a subtle way hoping it will be a different effect. If you so much as say ‘I really like you’ then BAM you lost her. Let the dates play out right, be yourself and not desperate. You can’t push things and you can’t make things go any faster then they should or want to go. All you show when on the second date saying ‘I really like you’ is that you can’t quite control yourself just yet, and she doesn’t want that. She wants a confident guy that can protect her. So just kick back, relax, have fun on the date. If you so much as just have fun with each other in an honest way you will grab her heart faster and better than any of those desperate guys she sees all the time daily.
Like anyone else with anything else. Treat it with love and care. Cook food for a shorter time and it won’t be done. Put the heat up and cook it for a faster time and it will burn. You need to find the right setting and temperature before going out there on dates. This is why you go through too many dates to count. Because you don’t control yourself and you don’t learn from your dating mistakes and then blogs like these need to exist to tell you what common sense should tell you, and common sense may tell you this you just don’t listen to it so maybe you will listen to me. I’ve been there and done that and I learned from my own and other peoples mistakes to learn what I should be doing and once I changed my first date after my change turned into meeting the girl of my dreams and five years later we are still going strong. It’s a wonderful thing when you can listen, be confident and use your head.
So good luck guys and spread the word. Every man should read these. Share it with your friends and don’t forget, you ladies are next after the 10 mistakes that men make. That’s right, your time is coming. More on the way fellas.
