Many guys, after they return from their first date, are very excited to find out what their date actually feels about it. They often get too excited when it’s not even required. It’s not that hard to see whether your partner got interested in you or not.
Bear in mind that most women are not initiators in dating, that’s why if you want to pursue her, be honest and let her know what you feel. Don’t hesitate to try to ask for a next date. And here are some tips to find out whether the feeling is mutual.
1. Body language.
If she crosses her arms, does not make eye contact, holds her arms close or leans back – you can be almost sure that she’s not interested. But if she leans in, occasionally touches your hand, these are positive signals for you. She shows some interest.
2. Conversation.
If she is interested, she will ask you questions about your background, your character and so on and will respond to your questions in a thoughtful manner. But if she answers only in a few words, with little interest in this, this is a dangerous sign. Try to change your behavior and interest your date.
3. Responsiveness.
Women are very responsive to someone they like and find attractive. If you get your phone calls unanswered, text messages without response and dates postponed, that’s a huge sign that she’s not interested. Don’t try to put more pressure on her though since she can just think it’s a better way not to tell that she’s not interested personally, but just ignore you. Simply, move on.
4. Next date.
If she asks you about your next date at the end of your first date, that’s the best sign you can ever have. This shows the genuine interest she has in meeting you at least once again, so don’t lose your chance and don’t postpone calling her to arrange your next date.How to Tell if a Woman is Interested
Many guys, after they return from their first date, are very excited to find out what their date actually feels about it. They often get too excited when it’s not even required. It’s not that hard to see whether your partner got interested in you or not.
Bear in mind that most women are not initiators in dating, that’s why if you want to pursue her, be honest and let her know what you feel. Don’t hesitate to try to ask for a next date. And here are some tips to find out whether the feeling is mutual.
1. Body language.
If she crosses her arms, does not make eye contact, holds her arms close or leans back – you can be almost sure that she’s not interested. But if she leans in, occasionally touches your hand, these are positive signals for you. She shows some interest.
2. Conversation.
If she is interested, she will ask you questions about your background, your character and so on and will respond to your questions in a thoughtful manner. But if she answers only in a few words, with little interest in this, this is a dangerous sign. Try to change your behavior and interest your date.
3. Responsiveness.
Women are very responsive to someone they like and find attractive. If you get your phone calls unanswered, text messages without response and dates postponed, that’s a huge sign that she’s not interested. Don’t try to put more pressure on her though since she can just think it’s a better way not to tell that she’s not interested personally, but just ignore you. Simply, move on.
4. Next date.
If she asks you about your next date at the end of your first date, that’s the best sign you can ever have. This shows the genuine interest she has in meeting you at least once again, so don’t lose your chance and don’t postpone calling her to arrange your next date.
