Thinking that it takes looks and money is a dumb mistake that men like to make. I actually think they do it on purpose just so they can brag to anyone that wants to listen for 2 minutes. It is one of the most common on all mistakes that guys will make before they even have a date. This is because they are under the illusion that if you have looks and money the attractive girls will suddenly be attracted to you. They also think the same thing when it comes to guys being tall and guys that are a certain age. How does height and age play a factor? I mean seriously, makes no sense. But it isn’t about that, this is about money and looks, so back to the subject then. It’s true, SOME girls like money and looks but that is because they are gold diggers and are only with your for one reason, your money. These kind of girls aren’t worth your time and if you think women are attracted to money and looks you aren’t worth their time. It takes a lot more than these two small things to actually fall in love. And I don’t mean empty words to a pretty face and some green notes. I mean a real love. It takes a lot more than these two pety things for a real love. Women are more interested in the mans personality, not the contents in their wallet or all the make up he decides to wear. Or, at least REAL girls are interested in the personality. If you have a great personality that would attract far more women than your ‘good’ looks and money.
When me and my girlfriend got together it was over the internet. One in three relationships start over the internet anymore so it’s no surprise that mine started there. Bad neighborhood and I really didn’t want to get to know any of the ‘girls’ here who were obsessed with fashion, makeup and money. So I met my girlfriend online and we fell in love with each others personalities first. That was the first thing that we even knew about each other. We didn’t know what we looked like but we did know we never wanted to be off the CPU again until we met in real life. We didn’t meet through an online dating service, so if you are wondering why we didn’t know what each other looked like, that is why. We actually met over a game. Eventually we met and I was blown away with how cute and beautiful she was. And to me, that was simply only a bonus, because it was what was on the inside that mattered the most. And it ended up she felt the same way. It was almost like fate because we both never wanted to date unless it was with someone we wanted to be with forever. We didn’t want to play the dating game all our lives and be like everyone else. And we both found each other and clicked. It was amazing.
But enough about me! I was rambling there. Learn how to use your personality to attract the ladies. And if you are naturally a jerk or @$$ hole then learn to use your head a little more often. Using your body language to communicate and you will succeed. By doing this you can make the young attractive females want you as you want them. Give it a try, got nothing to lose. Good luck guys, more to come and you girls are next!
