To all you men out there that lack the power of female persuasion, here’s a little secret I got for you, used by the experts! Women of all kinds, even the drop dead gorgeous type, love being approached by a man that looks confident and interesting, someone they may be interested in knowing. And it’s true too, sometimes if you just look like you know what your doing and look like you got tons going on in your head, you will attract more ladies then before. That works out just the same as well for internet dating as well as regular dating. A woman is still a woman whether they are on the internet or not. So make yourself look confident, smart and interesting.
Here’s a fun fact for you all. There’s a lot more men on dating services then there are women. Men are most likely to browse about a lot more as well. It’s usually the mans job to make first contact, which seems to just be the natural thing, women like to feel wanted, so if YOU go to her, she will feel wanted. And keep in mind you gotta make sure you keep your profile in check too. If she looks you up after you make contact, you need to make sure you got true, honest information on your profile and that you got a good picture of yourself.
And that does not mean to stick crap on your profile, making yourself out to be something your not, and no don’t use a picture of brad pitt or something like that. You need to let them know you are honest, you are serious about this, you can love and care for others and you can be there for them in the end when they need you most. So stay away from those little ‘warnings’ of how such a bad guy you really are or whatever. Yeah sure that sounds like fun, but in the end a lady wants someone they can be with forever. Things like that you really want to stay away from, the lady doesn’t like it! But also you want to stay away from over playing yourself to be a knight in shining armor there to take the woman away. Sometimes life doesn’t go as planned and things may not turn out the best, lets say, financially and you two will need to work as a couple to get through those hard times. That’s life, so don’t speak like you can give her the world, speak as if you can give her your all and your heart. So keep to reality, and stay true and honest, if you do that, you will eventually find your special someone.
And so there you go, if you work on a great profile that really stands out but stays honest and true, chances are females may find their way to YOU instead of you finding yours to them. Give it a shot and good luck!
