Friday, July 1, 2011

The Digital Jungle of Love


Cruising the Digital Jungle for Love
Found yourself flying solo again?  No problem. Simply join at least one of the cosmic multitudes of Internet dating sites that exist here in cyberspace. The world becomes your dating playground and with a bit of luck you may just find the right guy. Here's some reliable online dating advicethat won't disappoint, because finding Mr. Right usually means sifting through countless versions of Mr. Wrong, Mr. Loser and Mr. Inappropriate first!

Online Dating Advice for The Uninitiated

A few emails from interested fellows have found their way to your inbox and you excitedly click to see who's been checking you out. With a bit of luck some of your admirers may have bothered to read your profile, although chances are with the opening remarks of "Mmmm. Hot pics! I'd really like to see more of you", means they never took their eyes off your photo for one solitary second. They really do mean what they have written... literally!
Online dating advice only delivers what you essentially put into practice. Like any new venture, there's usually clear instructions to help you before you begin. The reason that so many women fail in the dating game is that we get so excited at the prospect of meeting someone that may turn out to be Mr Right, which leads to not following the simple rules of dating. We jeopardize ourselves over and over again. Below is some online dating advice that is a surefire fail proof method to have fun and enjoy the online dating experience.
  • Stop worrying about meeting Mr Right! The purpose of online dating is to get you out in cyberspace circulating and making new friends.
  • It's only an email or a chat room. Don't fall head over heels with a cyber-pseudo identity. Leave that for when you've actually met on a real date.
  • Don't ever become an Internet date stalker! This never makes a good impression except for encouraging perhaps Mr Psycho which never ends well.
  • Don't post a photo that's not recent or the sexy siren picture unless you want to attract Mr Drooling Stalker.
  • DON'T be rushed into meeting someone. IF he really wants to meet YOU, he will wait until you are ready.
Now on a more serious note, online dating advice is meant to keep you safe from potential harm. Believe it or not there are predators that target single women that have low self esteem, a condition that often follows breakups or just being alone when you want to find the man of your dreams and settle down with someone special.
  • Do keep the first date short and simple such as a coffee date or a light-lunch in a well-populated, familiar public place that's close to home.
  • Do let someone know who, where and when you will be meeting and arrange to call to let them know you've arrived home safely after the date.
  • Do take your cell phone with you and make sure it's fully charged.
  • Do ask questions about your date's interests try to keep the conversation light-hearted, be yourself and have fun!
So what are you waiting for? Go find that Mr Right as you know he's out there some where!