Thursday, June 30, 2011

What 5 things does she want in you?


Here it is men. We all know we’ve had our fair share of ‘Well what the heck does she want?!‘ and we all know that’s a pretty hard thing to get. Women vary but overall they all like the same basic things, read on to find those out!
It’s rather sort of simple actually. Usually right under your nose. Or well, face and maturity more like. It doesn’t take much to understand the basics once you read them and such. So here we have the top 5 must haves on a woman’s list.

  • Firstly, it’s solvency. It’s not so much that the woman wants to know exactly that you’re the vice president or runner up to be it or something. But they do like to know that you got your life in check. That you got your life together, and if need be, as well as your family. They are also looking for atleast a semi stable man, in terms of a job. They want to see that you can support yourself, and them if needed, and not rely on them for their money. They would also love to hear of a potential long term plan. Knowing what you got to give and that its stable is something they love.
  • Secondly, it’s the dreaded hygiene. If you plan on an enjoyable relationship, one where you want your lady to enjoy you emotionally as well as possibly intimately, don’t stink. Last thing you want to do is smell like you’ve swam in a dumpster and then bathed in dirt shortly after. It is true though that the natural smell slightly attracts ladies (Hey, how else would cave men get the ladies?) but smelling good would probably be best here. Clean up, trim the hair, scrub and use soap. Make sure your hair isn’t greasy, your nails aren’t full of dirt and out grown. Get that going and put on some cologne and your good to go!
  • Here’s one I like. Maturity folks. Yeah sure your level on that game you love may be impressive to other gamers, but your lady is here for you, not a game. She would be more impressed but what you can actually do, preferably something caring, loving or affectionate. Unless of course she’s a gamer too, try to avoid the game talk. And on top of that, may be best to leave out pranks you may have pulled on someone. Being as that’s a child like action, it will make you look child like as well. And as the first of the list said, they like to know you got yourself in line. So keep your eyes on her, not your TV screen.
  • Women actually like it when their man can actually do something. Even more so when they WANT to do things. The last thing they want to do is get involved with a man who looks like a stick that cant lift a hammer. They don’t want to look into the future and see themselves doing the house work. Be able to do heavy labor, and be willing to do it for her. She’s your woman, you’re her man, be there for her when she needs it. If you can’t change a tire when she pops one I don’t think it’ll impress her how well you can dial for help. If there’s a leak I don’t think she will be impressed at how well you can pay a repair bill. So man up and be able to walk the talk!
  • Yeah, its true that women would like a man with maturity, one that’s got solvency. Yeah she wants a real man that can walk the talk, do what needs to be done. Yeah these are all needed but she also wants a real partner. Someone that listens as much as they lead. Someone that makes her feel like an equal. Yeah making your lady feel like a princess is good and all, but eventually they start to dislike that. She wants it all, so don’t let her down. If you want to spend the rest of your life with her you should probably get working on it if you haven’t already. It will all be worth it.