No one likes being stuck in an awkward and embarrassing situation during the first date. A first date can sometimes be nerve wracking, especially at times when there is nothing to do or talk about. That’s why having a good back up plan during a first date is a good idea and can really save the night if things aren’t going so smooth.
Play an index card game. Instead of writing questions on a bunch of index cards and using them to interview your date, try making a game out of it. If you use index cards to ask questions, you will be too nervous anyway to listen to the answer. A fun game would be to give your date some blank index cards, write a question on it and on the other side, write what they think the answer will be. This is a great way to break the ice. The idea isn’t to rely on these index cards, but instead use them as a backup plan if things are getting awkward and quiet.
Check out your surroundings. Look at the couple a few tables away and try to play a game with your date guessing what they are thinking or doing based on their body language. Talking about people and things around you can bring out more intimate conversation topics to find out more about the other person. Use humor as well since laughter is a great way to start talking about more intimate things.
Talk about films and movies. It’s hard to find a person who doesn’t like watching movies. Talking about recent or favorite movies and old time classics can make a starting point for more conversation topics and also get to know your date more. There is a lot to talk about when talking about movies, such as characters, actors, actresses, and morals.
Matchmaking is a great way to meet people who are compatible with you and share the same relationship goals. Going out on a first date with someone who is compatible with you can really make you feel relaxed and comfortable leading to a lovely and memorable evening. You don’t have to be someone you are not by going out of your way just to impress the other person. Focus on having a great first date and try using these backup plan tips in case an awkward or nervous situation comes up.
