Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Dependency - A Defensive Reaction


Dependency 
Statistics show that dependency is used more often than is its opposite, self-reliance. Dependency shows up in several ways in what people do not do. Chief among these failures is unwillingness to make decisions or to exert extra effort. Dependency is sometimes character­istic of the person who appears satisfied with the status quo and is willing to "let George do it"~ven though George will get all the credit. This mechanism is related to conformity in behavior; it is less threatening to agree than to be different.
The dependent adult is much like the dominated child who constantly wants to be reassured. Dependency can be a roadblock to individual productivity. For example, technical or professional ob­solescence can result from the individual's failure to apyraise him­self, particularly when oth~r people may be overprotective with him.